Oh, Now You See Me? On How I'm Only Visible To Brunch Democrats Before An Election



                Per a 2004 article from The Guardian, 94% of white Brits had friends mostly or all of the same race.
  Given the UK is perceived as an entity that, although very white, is far removed from the racial hierarchy that thrives in the US, such information is quite ironic.  Granted, one could argue that homogeneity is exactly why the percentage is so high.  However, only 53% of ethnic minorities reported the same, so that rebuttal isn’t valid.

                Of course, in a world where there was no pretense of allyship this data, which was gathered by the Commission for Racial Equality, wouldn’t be that informative.  But when white liberals rely so heavily on black support whenever they want help wrangling their metaphorical drunk uncle (e.g., Bush, Trump, so forth and so-on) back into the basement, one can’t help but notice the gap in their attention.  In other words, the elite class puts so much effort into curating their social networks to have the least amount of color as possible during the off-season but seem to suddenly notice we exist when their “progressive” image is at stake.

                Several weeks before the 2020 presidential election, I received a call from what sounded like a middle-aged white woman: someone who’s radar I wouldn’t even register on in any other environment.  She implored that I vote democrat and begin to explain why I should.  I politely told her I was registered but, ultimately, didn’t know what I was going to do on Nov. 3rd.  I humored her for a minute or so longer, but eventually had to hang up when she began to ramble.  Nevertheless, I couldn’t help but wonder whether she saw me as anything other than a potential vote.  A similar suspicion is echoed by comedienne Amanda Seales in an episode of her podcast Small Doses.  In response to a user’s question, she acknowledges how whites will idolize black women in theory yet exclude them from their social circles because they don’t consider them equals but mere “resources.”

                Additionally, in the days before the election, I received multiple texts from both the GA Democrats and the Student Action movement asking me to vote for Biden.  Now I can’t determine the racial makeup of these organizations (and not for lack of trying) but with names like Ellen, Sarah, Phoebe, Emily and Ross, it’s a high probability none of these people would even acknowledge my existence if we crossed paths on the street.  Admittedly, these messages could’ve been sent by bots.  Though, frankly, that’s a worse truth than the one I’ve been insisting: truly, if an organization can’t even diversify its androids then their social bias goes deeper than a friend group.

                Surely, this selective salience employed by elitists to enforce the caste system isn’t paused only during election seasons.  Empirical observations have shown me that those who perceive themselves to be of higher social status will shamelessly break character when there’s a momentary benefit to be gained.  For example, in Fall 2018 I was in an office alone one evening when a group of Ga Tech students walked in.  They all strategically managed to keep from making eye contact with me as they walked past but when they needed my assistance with some login issues they didn’t have credentials for they didn’t hesitate to come over and engage me in warm conversation and small talk.  Given that college-educated whites are one of the pillars of the democratic party, it’s moments like these that make me so skeptical of neo-liberal advances and claims of solidarity.

                As I’ve written about before, members of the elite constituency will engineer all kinds of social boundaries to uphold classism but will also break character when they want something.  More specifically, white elites seem to have selective awareness of my existence but won’t hesitate to reach out and beg for a vote.

                Granted, the aforementioned article is quite old, and it could be argued that this is a generational phenomenon that will improve with time.  However, not only is this an excuse for complacency on behalf of the guilty, but there are more recent articles that negate this theory.  For example, a 2015 report from Pew states that 81% of white adults say that all or most of their friends are white, compared to 70% of blacks and 54% of Asian Americans. 

                Overall, the purpose of this post isn’t to guilt white liberals into befriending people of color or even to dissuade black liberals from voting for democrats.  Rather, it is simply a request that black leftists know what contract they’re entering when they buy into white liberalism.  With that said, thanks for reading and stay pissed.

               

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